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Domestic Violence Aware Month

Do you recognize these behaviors and attitudes?
October 21, 2021
What Traits Do Abusers Have in Common?
There is no one typical, detectable personality of an abuser. However, they do often display common characteristics.
An abuser often denies the existence or minimizes the seriousness of the violence and its effect on the victim and other family members.
An abuser objectifies the victim and often sees them as their property or sexual objects.
An abuser has low self-esteem and feels powerless and ineffective in the world. He or she may appear successful, but internally, they feel inadequate.
An abuser externalizes the causes of their behavior. They blame their violence on circumstances such as stress, their partner's behavior, a "bad day," on alcohol, drugs, or other factors.
An abuser may be pleasant and charming between periods of violence and is often seen as a "nice person" to others outside the relationship.
What Are the "Warning Signs" of an Abuser?
Red flags and warning signs of an abuser include but are not limited to:
-Extreme jealousy
-Possessiveness
-Unpredictability
-A bad temper
-Cruelty to animals
-Verbal abuse
-Extremely controlling behavior
-Antiquated beliefs about roles of women and men in relationships
-Forced sex or disregard of their partner's unwillingness to have sex
-Sabotage of birth control methods or refusal to honor agreed upon methods
-Blaming the victim for anything bad that happens
-Sabotage or obstruction of the victim's ability to work or attend school
-Controls all the finances
-Abuse of other family members, children or pets
-Accusations of the victim flirting with others or having an affair
-Control of what the victim wears and how they act
-Demeaning the victim either privately or publicly
-Embarrassment or humiliation of the victim in front of others
-Harassment of the victim at work
Domestic violence is terrifying but there is help.
Please call 911 if you are in immediate danger or call the Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-877-57-7233 for help.

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  • Inside This Week's Issue
    • Child nearly drowns in James River near Galena
    • Local businesses destroyed in overnight Buttonwood Center fire
    • Man sentenced in Billy Mack Walker murder case
    • Former garment factory building on the north side of Crane is for sale
    • Man sentenced for charges involving high speed pursuit
    • Kimberling City officer takes home crown at first responder pageant
    • Weekly Stock Market Insights
    • Crane woman seriously injured in motorcycle crash
    • Local students named to Missouri State University’s spring 2022 dean’s list
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